{"id":14273,"date":"2021-02-16T09:29:44","date_gmt":"2021-02-16T08:29:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/laurabalado.com\/?p=14273"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:24:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:24:58","slug":"hablas-mucho-y-haces-poco-cuando-educas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/laurabalado.com\/?p=14273","title":{"rendered":"Repites cada d\u00eda lo mismo una y otra vez. Soluciones con Disciplina Positiva."},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>En ocasiones<strong> hablamos mucho y hacemos poco<\/strong><\/h3>\n<blockquote><p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00bfY cu\u00e1l es el resultado?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1) repetici\u00f3n,<\/p>\n<p>2) enfado,<\/p>\n<p>3) castigo,<\/p>\n<p>4) amenaza,<\/p>\n<p>5) escribe el tuyo&#8230;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3><strong>\u00bfQuieres que esto cambie?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Aqu\u00ed comparto contigo una de las Herramientas de Disciplina Positiva para empezar a hablar menos y pasar a la acci\u00f3n de manera respetuosa pero firme a la vez.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>A veces, la actitud m\u00e1s efectiva es tener a boca cerrada y actuar:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\n<h4>Haz saber con anticipaci\u00f3n, lo que vas a hacer, comun\u00edcalo de manera tranquila y respetuosa (sin amenazas).<\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<h4>Aseg\u00farate de que el mensaje lleg\u00f3 y que lo han entendido, h\u00e1blalo cara a cara y en un momento que sepas que el mensaje va a llegar, y adem\u00e1s pregunta: \u00bfQu\u00e9 has entendido?<\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<h4>Despu\u00e9s, act\u00faa sin hablar, de manera amable y firme.<\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<p><em>Por ejemplo: <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>De cada vez que pele\u00e1is en el coche, me pongo nerviosa, he decidido que cuando vuelva a suceder voy a parar el coche hasta que par\u00e9is de pelear.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>En ocasiones hablamos mucho y hacemos poco &nbsp; \u00bfY cu\u00e1l es el resultado? 1) repetici\u00f3n, 2) enfado, 3) castigo, 4) amenaza, 5) escribe el tuyo&#8230; &hellip; <span class=\"ml-btn\"><a href=\"https:\/\/laurabalado.com\/?p=14273\" class=\"more-link\">Read More<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14461,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[204],"tags":[396],"class_list":["post-14273","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-familia","tag-disciplina-positiva-para-familias"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/laurabalado.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14273"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/laurabalado.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/laurabalado.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laurabalado.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laurabalado.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14273"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/laurabalado.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14273\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14460,"href":"https:\/\/laurabalado.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14273\/revisions\/14460"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laurabalado.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/14461"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/laurabalado.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14273"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laurabalado.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14273"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laurabalado.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14273"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}